What the host usually makes
The host usually cooks the main dish, like a roast, ham or turkey, because it needs the oven at home and careful timing. Everything else can be shared.
What guests can bring
- Sides like roasted vegetables, potatoes and stuffing
- A salad or a cold starter
- Bread and butter
- Desserts, including something that is not too rich
- Drinks, crackers and cheese for before dinner
A fair way to split it
Give each household one or two things, based on how far they travel and how much they like to cook. Families coming from far away can bring drinks, bread or dessert, which travel easily. Locals can take the dishes that need to arrive hot.
Ask early
Share the menu two to three weeks ahead, so people can plan their shopping and oven time. December is busy, and a clear list stops last-minute duplicates.
Wording you can use
We're so happy to host Christmas dinner this year! We'll make the ham and the potatoes. Could each family bring one dish? Pick yours here so we get a bit of everything: [your link]
On the day
Clear fridge space before guests arrive, and have serving spoons, trivets and foil ready. Ask people to bring their dish ready to serve or reheat, since the oven will be busy until dinner.
Ready to plan yours?
Start with a ready-made list, then share one link. Guests don't need an account.
Start a Christmas dinner sheet